E CONCHIS OMNIA

Pope Excrucius VonHammersgenitalien The Last, Bishop of Antarctica, Vicar of the Xenomorphs, Successor of the Princess of Extreme Genital Torture, Supreme Pontiff of All Forces in the Universe, Primate of Enceladus, Archbishop and Metropolitan of Lake Vostok, Sovereign of the Planet Saturn, Servant of NO ONE.

on transitioning openly on the job

terribleflower:

This isn’t a post about my new job bc my new job seems ok

but sometimes I just don’t want to tell anyone I work with. Sometimes I think it would be best to totally compartmentalize my job vs my actual life.

Because people are going to misgender me, be curious about me, assume I’m “really” a butch lesbian, assume all manner of things etc etc, either way.

And sometimes I wonder if being open right off the bat about pronouns/gender/etc is just leaving myself vulnerable to cis bs & making their fuck-ups hurt that much more. And when you’re on the job you can’t give people what-for or even walk away. I’d almost rather have my separate life & leave them to their speculations & glances.

Bless this post.

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  1. skullvomit said: Do whatever feels right. It’s rough and awkward, but whatever you choose you’re awesome and you can always change things in the future.
  2. reverendmother said: Ugh. This.
  3. a-deathly-shadow said: ive tried that. it did not work for me and made work more stressful…but it is a perfectly reasonable thing to do. work =/= life