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bonestraightyaki:

If I had a dime for every time a bunch of warlocks stole my baby dragons

Anonymous asked: I don't think it looked like anon was misgendering you (though seeing as it was a message to you, you are probably likely to make a better judgement on that). For some, certain genitals could be triggering regardless of the gender of the person whose genitals they are. Since everybody has there own experience/coping ability, I would assume it's the genitals, not the gender, that is triggering. Like I said though, I could be misreading and anon could've been misgendering, but I don't think so.

RE: This post.

Are you willing to bet money that I was not being read as male in that ask? Because I know what being read as male looks and sounds like and I am willing to bet money that I was being read as male. I am also willing to bet money that you are cis. I was NOT attempting to open up a discussion with people other than the original messenger about whether or not I was being misgendered. My question was about the intersection of respecting survivors of rape and sexual assault and not bowing down to transphobia and genital essentialism and how to handle that. Do you even know what genital essentialism is? And how vital it is to radical feminism and how radical feminists believe that all trans women are really just men in dresses trying to sneak into the women’s restroom in order to rape “real” women? Like do you even know what it feels like to have that kind of violent bullshit vomited onto you? Because I do. And I know it when I see it. You have contributed absolutely nothing valuable to this conversation other than an opinion I did not ask for and that you have no right to give. I will determine when I am facing transphobia.  Get off my fucking blog.

crimeish:

ideally i would like my appearance to freak people out so much that they forget to gender me

this has actually happened to me before

(via teacakes)

My mom got me lavender seeds for my birthday, but one packet says “lavender” and the other says “TRUE lavender” and it is really pissing me off. What the fuck why is that a thing. The first lavender is a fucking poser and TRUE lavender is just trying way too hard to prove itself.

Anonymous asked: OMFG MOONFLOWERS ARE THE BEST. their flowers are HUGE and delicate and they smell gorgeous and they only last a night they are ephemeral and they attract HUGE beautiful moths.. but you probably knew all this, i just love them. also my mom and i have a fraught relationship but when i was younger, we planted moonflowers together. ugh moonflowers <3 i hope yours grow so well!! <3

Aww, thank you. I am so excited. I really want to make a huge dome out of chicken wire, leave a little entrance so you can get inside, and let vines grow all over it. If these moonflowers and morning glorys do well, I might actually try that.

I need to go buy liquid seaweed+fish fertilizer and worm castings but I am having trouble finding the motivation to go out and buy worm shit.

eighthgradesleepover:

hey look a dude being shitty to a woman

oh look he’s gay

oh

look